
Today – I had a come-apart! (that’s Carrie-speak for a melt-down of sorts.)
I take Baby Barefoot to my parents sometimes for a ‘Fri-date.’ I love that they are so close and she really enjoys the special time with them (since the other 7 grandchildren are busy on Friday mornings!)
When I was moving the carseat to my dad’s car…I couldn’t get it detached. I had never moved THIS particular seat and was really frustrated. I was in tears at my ’stupidity’ by the time I called my husband to help me.
As he tried to explain over the phone (patiently), I became more frustrated and of course this was the “dumbest design, ridiculous that it’s so hard, piece of junk” carseat ever made. (I know you’re laughing…I was NOT).
I was almost hysterical. Seriously. I even said ‘I am an intelligent, educated woman. I run several businesses and this should NOT be so hard!!!’
After a few more minutes of step-by-step instructions…Mr. B talked me through it and I was successful. When I put the seat IN my dad’s car…I was able to talk him through it too so that he didn’t get frustrated.
As I was driving away and realizing how ’shaken’ I was by such a little thing…it dawned on me…until we’ve DONE it – until we’ve EXPERIENCED it (correctly) – until we’ve been SHOWN or LEARNED the right way….we often question our capability, our intelligence or in some case…we even question the validity of the: equipment, software, business model, product line, etc.
Have you been there?
Now you know I have!
Maybe you are wondering if ‘this business stuff’ is really for you?
Maybe you feel stupid because you ‘can’t figure it all out’.
Maybe you think ___________ is a flawed model or product because you haven’t gotten it to ‘work’ for you.
Whatever that is YOU are feeling…know that often, getting step-by-step instructions from someone with experience can make all of the difference.
I saw the same phenomenon this past week when we took the kids roller-skating!! They needed either the wall or a hand-to-hold when they were ‘wobbly.’
Having a mentor. A coach. A power partner. A course. — These things can help you breathe more easily and realize…Hey!!! You are pretty dadgum smart after all!! (now patience…that’s a quality I canNOT help you with
And remember I promised to share the 5 ‘Rings’ of a Champion!! Be watching your inbox daily. These will be short videos and written lessons so you can watch OR read. (your choice)
I’m so proud to be in your space!
P.S. If you are BRAND new in business or just now THINKING about starting a business…I have just 7 copies LEFT of my Barefoot Basic Business Blueprint course. We are revamping the course format and with that, the pricing will jump. So – if you are still in ’searching’ mode – go check this out!
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