You Were Born to Win!

Meeting my long-time hero for the first time in 2009. What an honor.

Flashback to 7th grade…such an awkward time for many, and I was no exception. And then I met the man with the funny voice and the funnier name…Zig Ziglar.

Well, I didn’t really MEET him, but my middle school class was being a ‘guinea pig’ for his ‘I Can Kids’ curriculum. THIS is where I learned about goal setting and the power of my own personal attitude. I can safely say, no cliche intended…that Zig changed the course of my attitude and therefore, my life.

You must read this book. I’m not suggesting. I’m not hinting. I’m saying – go get ‘Born to Win’ and read it.

Now, I’m proud to call Zig a mentor and friend and I love his family dearly.  I don’t review books for other ‘influencers’ when I am asked. And trust me, I’m asked a dozen times a week. But this book – you need.

“America’s Motivator” and bestselling author, has written what is sure to become a beloved classic, Born to Win. Zig gathers his 40+ years of teaching about success, what it really is and how to get it, and puts it all in one easy-to-understand book.

In Born to Win you will learn how:

  • You can begin to win right away
  • Two driving forces fuel action
  • To stop worrying about results
  • Being born to win can drive your business to new levels of success

Zig believes you were born to win, but you must plan to win and prepare to win. Then and only then can you expect to win. Zig shares the exact steps you can take to be the winner you are meant to be!  With his humorous writing style and real-life examples, you will find yourself going back to this book again and again.

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Carrie & Zig sharing the stage in Dallas, 2011. Judging from the look on my face, his humor is still as sharp as ever!

When a dancing ‘star’ really gets social media right

In a world where there are so many ‘doing social media wrong’ — I had to share this story…

My girls and I watch Dancing With the Stars.

My daughters are all very musical and dance driven, so we watch, we critique and we get vested in our favorites.

Last week, my 7 year old was distraught over the news that one of her top picks Maria Menounos was suffering from fractures in her feet, along with her previously broken ribs…and STILL dancing!

So my girls and I talked about dreams, goals and perseverance and we also talked about using wisdom regarding your health. Then, we left it at that.

Maybe you can imagine my surprise…when at bedtime, my sweet daughter prayed for Maria. I was so touched that I tweeted her the next morning!

Now…here is where I expected it to stop. I mean, really – the woman is an entertainment reporter, a New York Times best-selling author (her book is excellent, by the way) and is devoting a chunk of her life to Dancing With The Stars…I did NOT expect her to be monitoring her tweet stream.

But she does.

Not only did she ‘retweet’ it to all of her followers, she responded.

At this point…I was shocked. Really. Call me jaded in social media – but I’m very used to the ‘type’ of folks that amass lots of numbers and then don’t attempt to engage. We’ve got divas, snobs and even those that are outsourcing their ‘social activity’ – and let me say that Maria is not any one of those things. I, of course, had to respond.

My daughter was squealing because she was ‘tweeted’ by a celeb!! So I thanked her! After all, Momma taught me to be gracious. (Maria might laud being Greek – but I am Southern through and through — we both have our strengths ;)

At this point…I was thrilled. Maria had restored my faith in non-diva celebs…she had convinced all my girls that SHE was going to be the mirrored ball winner and our other previous top pick was now discarded along the wayside of Maria’s REAL-ness.

But what was interesting…is that it seemed MY family was not alone in being affected by this exchange. Maria was as well.

Maria kept thanking us and retweeting the prayer and note all over. Even @TeamMenounos got into the fun and started circulating this little random act of sweetness by my little girl.

And then…the icing on a fabulous cake…

This injured celeb, who was touched by my anonymous ‘could-be-anybody’ little girl praying for her, asked if she could send her a ‘Team Menough’ hoodie buddie. What she didn’t know is that my daughter is studying the performing arts, dancing, theatre, music and more. PLUS, it was her birthday!! She was OVER the moon.

Oh…and guess who she is cheering for, talking about and finding NO fault with? Yup. Maria!

I don’t share this story just to tell you about my little girl’s exciting week, but because I still firmly believe that social media can be a powerful way:

  • to be heard (as in my daughter’s case)
  • to render influence and genuine-ness (as in Maria’s case) and
  • to show hundreds of thousands of others (as in all the watchers of DWTS) that Maria is real, she is listening and she still cares…even about the littlest fans.

She has my vote. And because you are reading this…whether you watch DWTS or not — I’m going to ask you to vote for Maria too! Vote for her dancing through pain, for her juggling all of her jobs, for her involvement with real people and for her caring about the prayers of a 7 year old fan…who can’t even vote without permission.

I’m not going to open comments up for this post – I’m going to ask, instead of a comment…that you go vote. Really…click on the image above or dial the phone. For Catie’s friend…Maria.

 

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